Meatpie, I've read about the problems you've had with YouTube. The people there are a bunch of tossers. It's about time they cleared their site of images of the living being tormented, and left the dead to take care of themselves. You know the thing I mean - teenagers using their mobiles to film themselves kicking the hell out of some poor kid, and then posting the results on YouTube for their peers to laugh at.
There's absolutely no reason why necrophilia and compassion shouldn't go hand in hand - in fact the former often provokes the latter, which is a good thing. Compassion for the dead is a good thing. I can identify with the tone of your remarks. You have a lot of empathy. I guess that, like me, you would rather burn in hell than hurt one of your fellow creatures.
Sincerely yours, Conradin.