Have you ever been with someone when they died

[JMsidious]

hey, nice to meet you. I am a physical therapist, I worked in intensive care units and cardio units many years. but got stressed out, now I am doing home health and outpatient. less stress and in my own business. do you work in the helicopter medevac?

keep in tocuh.

higladius.

any good looking corpses in LA?..lol..going there for a seminar last week october...
did you see... pathology with milo vermiglia?. cool movie...

Yes - I thought the whole movie was quite shitty, but the sex and killing was superb. Helicopters - oh yeah - here's a pic of my office, and one from my office - -

 

[verlup1]

Such a beautiful view you have! I don't know if I'd be able to fly in a helicopter every day though.

 

[robert2008]

do you have som pics about Rob, we want to look at how beautiful he is!

 

[Apart]

I dont buy the "ohhhh I am going to pass away peacefully right now at the perfect moment" too.
It's just a fantasy that was made for TV shows, movie.
Just like how they always plot the hero hide safely behind the car door in a massive gun fight. Whereas in real world those bullet would've pierced through them like butter already.

The story is very touching though!

 

[Tiannalsp]

thats so ideal.

 

[Tiannalsp]

normally they choke and drown own their own melting insides, so i guess thats a lot better.

 

[Meatpie]

Yes - I thought the whole movie was quite shitty, but the sex and killing was superb. Helicopters - oh yeah - here's a pic of my office, and one from my office - -

Looks fucking high.

 

[Peehnut]

my dad made gurguling sounds everytime i would blow air into his mouth and his lips were blue, his skin looked really sickly pale almost grayish...his heart was beating for a couple of minutes then it stated speeding up and fluttering,then it faded. i kept doing cpr until the medics got to our house, but it was too late.

 

[Entilzha]

That is sad to hear...

May his spirit be with his ancestors, and always watching over you

 

[Meatpie]

May he rest in peace.

I am sorry you had to go through all this, the death of a parent can be very traumatic.

 

[djbear]

Palliative care is much different than a regular hospital. My best friend from age 3 died 9 years ago (we had both lost our partners the summer before to death) and while I could not stay overnight, the palliative care place phoned me and asked me if I wanted to come in and spend some time with him before they released his body. I chose not to.

I had a close friend (one whom I had never had sex with) who died of a major heart attack in his sleep. I had talked to him about 1 1/2 hours prior and he was so happy that evening. The next day when I did not get my morning joke from him, I went to his place and the landlord let me in. He was lying naked on the bed - they did an autopsy to ensure it was not suicide or fowl play (his face was done in the pillow and his arms looked like he had tried to raise himself. They determined he died of a massive heart attack.

 

[patrick57]

totally far fetched.

 

[CamoNoose]

With no offense meant to anyone and if it does offend oh well won't be the first time. How can any of you know whether something is true or not unless you were or have been there. Speaking as a former hospice caregiver, I think it is very true because I have seen many family members being together and probably being intimate at times. We encouraged the families there to simply treat the hospice room as their home and we are just here to manage pain and to assist the family in relieving the stress of being that caregiver. Also we often went into homes where people were allowed to live and die in their own home. Also, if I may remain on my soapbox before someone shoots me, I also went through the pain and difficulty of losing a partner to cancer and yes until almost the end we enjoyed being together even when he wasn't quite all there, I know he took comfort from my touch.