I not sure about that, bindi. Part of my problem w/ this sort of stuff is the involvement of money, and consequent distortion of one's common sense and dignity. To me, an exchange where one individual manipulates the sex organ of another simply for money is the definition of crass materialism & well, I don't know what. I'm not joking when I said I'd be the one starting up something like this in my youth, even w/ my over developed sense of guilt. I did lot of stupid crap like that, probably as overcompensation, and as something to hide behind, in an attempt to appear "normal". In many ways, this shows a lack of respect for themselves and each other. When I pulled a stunt it was never for $, was mostly spontaneous, and done to get laughs. Many times I hurt folks I shouldn't have, and got rep as a thoughtless bastard among some.
Yes, I am a bit uptight & still possessed of to much free ranging guilt. But this country is not, when one considers "Jersey Shore" or whatever its called. It is fair to say none of them is hampered by being uptight. Only have seen tiny bits of it while channel surfing.