Even when I reached puberty I liked lots of guys my own age, but also had the hots for lots of guys my dad's age and older. It was usually personality that triggered it - guys that I could see having a good time with and having fun. Also the persona of guys on TV and movies would turn me on. Nice guys like Tim Daly or Bobby Ewing (what an awesome neck and feet) would make my dick hard. Asshole teachers with awesome feet and amazing adams apples would turn me off (I guess because my fantasies are always consenting. Even JFK,JR did it for me...always seemed like a nice hunk. I think if I met a guy in his 50's with my fantasies and my type of personality it would work for me. I agree that most of the poster studs are really hot, but porn. It's not that they're awesome to look at, but you wouldn't be sharing fetishes and real fun - it would be like getting off and leaving the cash on the dresser.