Why are we born this way?

[Lycanthrope]

Ever wondered why? I recently had sex with a man, I thought I might be gay but I derive no enjoyment out of the sex even though he was gorgeous, fit and lean. It turns out my pathology is much much stranger. Like many forummers here, we get turned out by death and corpses or thoughts of death. I wonder what event, nature vs nurture turn us this way? Has anyone else thought of this before?

 

[stustustugoo]

we are what we are, why try to figure it out and stress over it,
just accept it and embrace it!!!!!!!!!
as long as no one hurts anyone its all good,

 

[Lycanthrope]

Yes, but I have this need to quantify and make sense of things. I am a scientist after all...

 

[badjohnny25]

it's probably something we'll never know!

 

[stustustugoo]

Yes, but I have this need to quantify and make sense of things. I am a scientist after all...

oh well, then drive yourself crazy i guess..........

 

[laserdude]

I have tried to "reason it out" all my life. While I have theories from my own experiences, I have just accepted that it is what it is!
It kinda sucks though ... Cause it is next to impossible to be truly satisfied.
Actual death is not really my thing, but a lot of stuff here is nice to see, for me!

 

[fireboots]

This is the age old question, Genetics vs Environment. I've wrestled with this, as I think most others with different views and "kinks". I do have a preference for women, I've never had nor wanted sex with a man, but in my ultimate fantasy, it is me getting burnt at the stake nude by men. Men abusing men also turns my crank more than the abuse of women by men.

Environment, particularly early experiences played a huge role for me. The thought of being "Cast Naked into the Fires of Hell' that was drilled into me and every other Catholic schooled kid I know, is the main source of my kink. The thing is that I draw enormous sexual stimulation from fire applied to my butt and cock and the thought of being tied naked to a stake nude and being burned alive. Nothing else really gets me going.

 

[Meatpie]

Fireboots you are one of a kind.

 

[bindiboi]

I'm not sure I was "born" this way. Born gay? Yes. But born with a propensity toward death? I doubt. It wasn't until I had my close call with death at 17 that made me crave it. I think coming face to face with the grim reaper, giving him a big, "Fuck you!", then bending him over and ass raping him, made me love necro particularly my own death. We only spend a few short years alive on this earth, the rest of it we spend dead. We might as well get some pleasure from it.

 

[fireboots]

Fireboots you are one of a kind.

Actually Meatpie, there are a lot of fire freaks out there, and most have some connection to the Christian visions of being thrown naked into the fires of Hell. If you read my stories in the Fire Group, you will see that I've had cohorts.
As far as this Forum goes, I'm an outsider, but even here there are a few people turned on by burning, and yes even a few others who have shared their own fascination with a fiery demise. For some reason I kinda like this place.

 

[Lycanthrope]

oh well, then drive yourself crazy i guess..........

I probably will lol but I cannot seem to find an evolutionary advantage towards a love of death in a sexual way. Evolution primes us to survive and spread our genes but yet here are a group of people who gets their rocks off from seeing death of fantasizing about it.

 

[Lycanthrope]

Maybe its just our pleasure/pain center of our brain being wired differently?

 

[Meatpie]

There is no reasonable explanation, most likely necrophilia is passed down generations but because it's such a taboo subject you can't just go to your gran and ask her if she is a necrophile or not.

And to make things even more complicated there is no definitive answer as to why some necrophiles will never hurt another human while some turn into extremely violent serial killers and cannibals.

 

[Waikiki]

we are what we are, why try to figure it out and stress over it,
just accept it and embrace it!!!!!!!!!
as long as no one hurts anyone its all good,

Great perspective. Why stress? All my stress never got me anywhere, and the bolder I get about pursuing my fantasies and fetishes with like-minded guys the more pleasure I'll have. BTW...I had a male foot fetish since I was a little kid...before kindergarten, grinding my dick on my pillow fantasizing what my buds and their older bros and other guys smelled and tasted like, also licking my own feet. I also remember being fascinated by beheading and thinking about that when I was humping my pillow, thinking about my buds and me getting ou heads cut off. So I'm sure it's nature, not nurture...nothing in my nurture would explain those two wild and kinky turn ons! The snuff fantasies we share are probably so ingrained in our genes after thousands of years of evolving...from the earliest times men were majorly into war and battle and killing, and not being afraid to be killed that we probably are wired for it - just think about the US military-all volunteers willing to go to Iraq, Afghanistan, and wherever they may next be sent to kill and risk being killed. The only different today is the Internet where so many of us can share our fantasies, which would have felt dark and weird and sick before we realized how many other guys have these ideas and turn ons. Insofar as my feet fetish goes, I bet every other dude and chick has wild fetishes from feet to piss to scat to...whatever. Whatever floats your boat. I'm still trying to get totally comfortable with my fetishes and what/who gets me turned on...but like most of us I'm a work in progress. I know when I'm finally and totally comfortable with it my life and pleasures will be as incredible as my best jerkoff fantasies! Like Stust says "....embrace it...it's all good"

 

[Meatpie]

..I had a male foot fetish since I was a little kid...before kindergarten, grinding my dick on my pillow fantasizing what my buds and their older bros and other guys smelled and tasted like, also licking my own feet.

At what point did you stop eating your own feet and turned to other guys? Do you still feel the urge to sometimes taste your own big toe?

 

[Waikiki]

At what point did you stop eating your own feet and turned to other guys? Do you still feel the urge to sometimes taste your own big toe?

Bro, every evening when I get home from work and strip down I peel off my socks and put one in my mouth to suck on it while I look at porn and chat and massage my leaking cock with my left cock so I don't get precum all over my keyboard and mousepad. When I begin to edge and I can't resist jerking off I kick back on my bed and lick my feet and suck my toes...I love the way a guys feet continue to REALLY sweat as he gets hornier and hornier. First I press my nostrils into the bottoms on my feet, then kiss my feet, then when I'm really close I begin to lick my feet....the taste of my feet sweating all day in my shoes knowing that when I get home from the office I'll be smelling and licking the taste of my horny feet! Drive me crazy, especially when I've seen lots of coworkers kicking the heels of their loafers off and playing with their shoes on their feet...wishing I could peel off their socks and lick their feet! The first time I actually played with another buds feet was when I was 16 and we were both horny watching porn (I was admiring the dudes cocks and feet...feet mostly). I knew he was horny for me and kept talking about what the chick was tasting when he blew his load into her mouth...did I ever wonder what jizz tastes like...I knew he really wanted to blow me. I teased him and said I lick the dudes feet before I suck his cock...that turned into a bet...he was my first suck buddy. I've had a lot of feet since that first time, and the weird thing is that even after 2 guys suck each others cock half the guys think I'm "kinky" to play with their feet. It's not kinky to have half my load dripping over his lips and down his chin, but some guys really think it's weird to lick their feet. I'd rather lick feet than suck cock....but I don't usually have to choose. I get both

 

[stustustugoo]

Bro, every evening when I get home from work and strip down I peel off my socks and put one in my mouth to suck on it while I look at porn and chat and massage my leaking cock with my left cock so I don't get precum all over my keyboard and mousepad. When I begin to edge and I can't resist jerking off I kick back on my bed and lick my feet and suck my toes...I love the way a guys feet continue to REALLY sweat as he gets hornier and hornier. First I press my nostrils into the bottoms on my feet, then kiss my feet, then when I'm really close I begin to lick my feet....the taste of my feet sweating all day in my shoes knowing that when I get home from the office I'll be smelling and licking the taste of my horny feet! Drive me crazy, especially when I've seen lots of coworkers kicking the heels of their loafers off and playing with their shoes on their feet...wishing I could peel off their socks and lick their feet! The first time I actually played with another buds feet was when I was 16 and we were both horny watching porn (I was admiring the dudes cocks and feet...feet mostly). I knew he was horny for me and kept talking about what the chick was tasting when he blew his load into her mouth...did I ever wonder what jizz tastes like...I knew he really wanted to blow me. I teased him and said I lick the dudes feet before I suck his cock...that turned into a bet...he was my first suck buddy. I've had a lot of feet since that first time, and the weird thing is that even after 2 guys suck each others cock half the guys think I'm "kinky" to play with their feet. It's not kinky to have half my load dripping over his lips and down his chin, but some guys really think it's weird to lick their feet. I'd rather lick feet than suck cock....but I don't usually have to choose. I get both

what u do to your soles and toes sounds exactly like how i eat my own soles while jerking........

 

[Meatpie]

Bro, every evening when I get home from work and strip down I peel off my socks and put one in my mouth to suck on it

Amazing, please show us your feet - vid or pic.

Are you hairy?

I sucked my toes up to age 19, then I started having sex with other guys regularly but sadly only few let me suck their feet and enjoyed it, most just bailed out and said I was a weirdo.

Even my boyfriend Alex who said I was the hottest guy never absolutely not once let me suck his toes although I was crazy about him and he knew that and let me do all other things with him but whenever I grabbed his feet he would just coil up and try to escape.

 

[Lycanthrope]

Do you guys get turned on by seeing other naked dudes? Or is it specific anatomy of the male body?

 

[PiercedChest]

Definitely! I can't keep my dick down if I see a handsome shirtless hairy stud (FFN is even better; I don't go to nude beaches afraid I'll have to walk around with a hard-on).