I noticed something so far. Lots of guys on this site say they want to hook up with somebody here and act out their death fantasies. So far I've contacted 3 people in my general area and they all seemed anxious to get together and do this.But when I try to make the final arrangements they either back down or I don't hear from them.It seems like some guys are just all talk and no action. It would be nice to meet someone who means what they say. Just my observation.
An Observation.
R
Risley
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Hi,
I made an `arrangement` with someone in UK recently(not CDGs member)and then backed out.I was sincere when making the agreement.If someone is seriously considering this they will be in a very distressed state,the waiting is very stressfull!,and they will be very prone to a change of mind the more the finality of the act is contemplated.The people you had arrangement with may wel have been sincere.
I made an `arrangement` with someone in UK recently(not CDGs member)and then backed out.I was sincere when making the agreement.If someone is seriously considering this they will be in a very distressed state,the waiting is very stressfull!,and they will be very prone to a change of mind the more the finality of the act is contemplated.The people you had arrangement with may wel have been sincere.
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well it is understandable to get cold feet when the propisition is to trust a complete stranger with your life and safety, considering that the vast majority of rps would involve an element of danger, be it the drugs used to knock a person out or that they will stop strangling you before you die. there is a ton of risk involved and that is a lot of trust to place in a stranger you met over the internet. personally if i were to meet with anyone from the site i would meet with them and get to know them pretty damn well before i went so far as to do a snuff rp with them.
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I totally agree with blackheart. It is stressful and scary enough meeting someone that you barely know under normal circumstances let alone when those circumstances involve the kind of risk that some of these scenarios can carry. It really all depends on what it is you want to do. The more risky and complex your fantasies are the higher the risk of someone getting cold feet.
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Interesting thread.
Online dating is risky business and the disappointment rate is high even if you finally do meet up.
The last-minute bail out is a phenomenon common on all dating sites.
Most guys say things online they would never do in real life.
I've been with lots of guys who say they are "open-minded" and relaxed about set...then 10 minutes later when I ask them if I could suck their toes they pull their feet and wouldn't let me!
Very very disappointing.
Online dating is risky business and the disappointment rate is high even if you finally do meet up.
The last-minute bail out is a phenomenon common on all dating sites.
Most guys say things online they would never do in real life.
I've been with lots of guys who say they are "open-minded" and relaxed about set...then 10 minutes later when I ask them if I could suck their toes they pull their feet and wouldn't let me!
Very very disappointing.
People sometimes back out for legitimate reasons. I remember the first time I was to meet a gay guy, I actually went but got the wrong location - we did hook up later and became friends (never sex) until he died. My two experiences meeting guys to play - one I already knew and trusted - the other was with a group play which did not hold out the same danger as one on one.
