A close family friend has passed away

Cool. Do you top or bottom?
 
Mostly top, but I've let the occasional bi dude fuck me. That only happens if I'm really turned on by the guy
 
Would you let me nail u?
 
Meatpie, I have dealt with death and dying issues in my native Southern US, and in Ireland as well. In most cases, other than those that have been trained to deal with death issues, people are at a loss of what to say. When it is a untimely or "early" death, such as your Doctor, people want to know what happened SO THAT THEY CAN AVOID THE SAME FATE! In young persons deaths, there is a bit of curiosity as to what misadventure, trauma or incident happened. We all (no matter what your belief system is) have problems understanding issues like your boyfriends best friend illness. We all expect have 70+ years, and are shocked to hear when a potentially fatal illness strikes the young.

All I can say to you is that you have a large multinational group of friends that love and appreciate you and what you do, and, as you are seeing, are reaching out to you in support as they best can.

Hold on to those you hold dear, family or not, and share their strength and love.

I am deeply saddened by your loss.
 
Meatpie, I am sorry that this happened to an obviously lovely and loved person. And I am sorry for you and your family. I know that with myself, I tend to just stare blindingly at death when it happens around me. Only with a very close friend in 1996 did I actually shed tears. His death devastated me as I never had friends and he was my first best friend, even though I was just 18 and he was 39. He wasn't even gay, he was just a great guy that taught me how to relax and have some fun. Surprisingly I didn't shed a tear when my dear Tor died a few years ago. When life treats you cold, you become cold. That is what I have become. There are prolly only three people that if they were to die I would cry. My best friend and the only non-online friend I have Justin, My little cousin David (who I see as the son I will never have), and my Mom. When my mom goes, so will I. I have no doubt about that.
 
Ditto what kmagyoyo said so well. I hope you also may find a somewhat serene perspective from which to view the inevitable, painful part of life. I'm not there, but I hear it's possible. I'm sorry for your loss.
 
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Thank you all for your comments & support.

She had a beautiful service, lots of flowers.

A couple of women nearly passed out.

Her son works in a morgue.

He said they kept her in a fridge for two days but you could still sense the smell of decomposition seeping through the coffin, it's unlike anything else on Earth.

I did get emotional at one point but couldn't cry.

The saddest part was when her son stood near the casket and just stared at it, we grew up together and it just killed me watching him like that.

I was impeccably dressed, all black with dark glasses.

I will miss her and remember her until my croak.
 
Memories validate a person's life, long after they die. You must've looked quite impressive in all black, MP
 
Yeah, and I have a new short haircut like in my avatar, I am sure some of those present imagined me lying in that casket.

I also played a central role during the funeral, carried the flowers and placed them ontop of the coffin.

People are scared of corpses, I am not.

Her husband later told us in private that they treated her for lung cancer at Johns Hopkins but even with the newest medication survival is only for a couple of months.

She passed away at home in her son's arms.

It's a cruel agonizing death, the cancer had spread to her brain and a week before death she went blind couldn't move and was hallucinating.

I don't want this happening to any relative, it's torture just watching the person's suffering and then realize there is nothing you can do to help.
 
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It's a cruel agonizing death, the cancer had spread to her brain and a week before death she went blind couldn't move and was hallucinating.
I don't want this happening to any relative, it's torture just watching the person's suffering and then realize there is nothing you can do to help.
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We need to continue discussing and legislating euthanasia.
In Holland, euthansia is allowed under strict conditions (very well expressed wishes of the person concerned in his/her sound mind, up to the day it is to be carried out (by a GP) itself, the situation must be one of unbearable suffering without hope of recovery, etc.). Even so, it's hard to find a GP who's willing to help.

Of course we want safeguards against dumping granny because she's a rich nuisance, but on the other hand we act more humanely ending animal suffering by putting them down, than helping hopeless terminally ill people in agony, even when it's their explicit and sincere wish.
 
I agree, it's torture for family members as well watching the loved one suffer and sceam with pain day and night.
 
Meatpie, very sorry to hear about your loss.
 
Thank you DD, most kind.
 
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We need to continue discussing and legislating euthanasia.
In Holland, euthansia is allowed under strict conditions (very well expressed wishes of the person concerned in his/her sound mind, up to the day it is to be carried out (by a GP) itself, the situation must be one of unbearable suffering without hope of recovery, etc.). Even so, it's hard to find a GP who's willing to help.

Of course we want safeguards against dumping granny because she's a rich nuisance, but on the other hand we act more humanely ending animal suffering by putting them down, than helping hopeless terminally ill people in agony, even when it's their explicit and sincere wish.
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It's ironic, isn't it, that we are compassionate to our pets and allow them to be euthanized when they are terminally ill and suffering greatly and yet, when humans are in that state, we make it so difficult to offer that same compassion.
 
Yeah but with people there are other factors involved like inheritance and the fact that if euthanasia is made legal there will certainly be people who would try to take advantage and sent relatives to the grave for personal gain.
 
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Yeah but with people there are other factors involved like inheritance and the fact that if euthanasia is made legal there will certainly be people who would try to take advantage and sent relatives to the grave for personal gain.
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I believe ethicists don't consider those factors high on the list for reasons to not allow euthansia. My state and the adjacent state have allowed it for a few years and there are no reports of inappropriate cases to date. When these laws are in place, there are a lot of checks and balances to prevent those exact fears. However, like PC mentioned, it is almost impossible to find doctors who are willing to do the certification.
 
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Your memories of her, and your respect for her son, deeply honor her.
 
Thank you. Her son is mentally strong I admire him.

He admitted he feels sick during autopsy sometimes.
 
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