I can't remember how I found the site, but when I found the hanging and breath control threads, I thought I'd died and gone to heaven. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I also enjoyed the thread on sleepersex, but am bored snotless by the gaycreeps videos. I'm not sure about how much personal info I'm supposed to share, so i'll keep it to a minimum. 47 gwm (but I don't look my age), from the midwest, kind of shy but looking to make real friendships, single, my free time is spent being a mr-fix-it, so if your toaster breaks, i'm your man. I'm still exploring the site, but am enjoying the sense of community that I'm getting. Is this enough info? Btw, it's nice to find a place where i don't have to be totally guarded about my *ahem* less than "vanilla" fantasies. Thanks all!