DO NOT JOIN THAT SITE... I was a member there for a long time... and the way it works is the guy who runs it, a very moody guy, has to always be right and if you disagree even slightly with him, no conversation, no warning, you're just banned... and there is that other nut he goes by Raybie/Throatfreak he's already been banned from here and about a dozen other places, but he runs around on that board commenting everything, messaging and spamming everyone CONSTANTLY as thou it were his job, and pretty much u can't do or say anything on that board without one or the other making the conversation all about them, or all about what's wrong with you. The whole site is just a bunch of guys into choking being interrupted, spammed, and bitched at by Raybie and the forum owner... it's one big headache that I would just avoid... If you're looking for places for M2MBC there are a ton of yahoo, google, and xxxgroups you can go to without the drama.