Lostnspace59
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When I was in my 20's I had something similar done to me by an ex (Peter) after a night on the town. I was only able to figure out what had happened the morning after. To make a story short - we broke up that morning, He denied the episode, and although I could not prove it, was sure it had happened. So I severed all ties with him and went on with my life. Twenty years later I got a phone call from his most current lover (Jack), that he (my ex Peter) had passed away a few weeks ago, and while going through a bunch of pictures - Jack had found a large amount of pictures of me, and all of them were apparently while I was either asleep or unconscious. After I was able to meet with Jack, talk with him and see those pictures, did I discover that my relationship with Peter was a lie - the only way Peter got off was to do so with someone out cold - the pictures showed me I was wrong about the one time, he had been doing it to me more times than I could imagine.
Jack explained that sex with someone conscious to Peter - was foreplay - the real making love scene happened later when he would either drug or use some thing else to knock out his quote on quote lover. Jack told me that he knew about Peter's scene which was Jack's also, which is way they had lasted as long as they did 14 years.
Knocking someone out - fantasy wise - can be a hot scene.
But take it from someone who went through it first hand - not knowing about what happened has stuck with me to this day. Not being able to trust potential lovers, while I am asleep sort of dampens me staying over. I am in my fifties now and still have problems with trust issues.
If knocking someone out for sex is the scene for you, please make sure you find someone equally into being knocked out and used like that. To do the opposite is nothing short of rape.
Of course this is only my opinion.
Jack explained that sex with someone conscious to Peter - was foreplay - the real making love scene happened later when he would either drug or use some thing else to knock out his quote on quote lover. Jack told me that he knew about Peter's scene which was Jack's also, which is way they had lasted as long as they did 14 years.
Knocking someone out - fantasy wise - can be a hot scene.
But take it from someone who went through it first hand - not knowing about what happened has stuck with me to this day. Not being able to trust potential lovers, while I am asleep sort of dampens me staying over. I am in my fifties now and still have problems with trust issues.
If knocking someone out for sex is the scene for you, please make sure you find someone equally into being knocked out and used like that. To do the opposite is nothing short of rape.
Of course this is only my opinion.
