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[cmm854]

Hey everyone! I just joined last night, after doing a lot of reading and searching I found myself here. I'm not entirely sure what I like/what I'm into yet, as I just discovered a possible maybe necrophilia thing going on. Long story short I read some stuff and...liked it.

I'm a 23 yr old bisexual female, and I think I'm a pretty easy person to get along with. Would love to talk to everyone and anyone! I'm generally an open person so questions are cool.

Thanks for reading!

 

[mehmehmeh]

Welcome! What was it about necro that interested you?

 

[cmm854]

Well I had read some "fantasies" on Reddit, (which is not as active as here) and it excited me. I have quite a few different fetishes, so I was taken aback by my reaction to what I had read, but was immediately wanting to learn more. I'm not sure what it is exactly that made me so interested, but I'm hoping to find out.

 

[Bloomdido Biff]

Hey everyone! I just joined last night, after doing a lot of reading and searching I found myself here. I'm not entirely sure what I like/what I'm into yet, as I just discovered a possible maybe necrophilia thing going on. Long story short I read some stuff and...liked it ...

CM, it makes a lot of sense to me why DEATH is such a psychologically "loaded" idea. (Don't we each somehow believe that God will, of course, make an exception in our own case). My death/necro eros is definitely some kind of attempt to make sense of it all.

(So far) what seems to stir you, CM?
Any interesting questions here? ...

• Is it the _experience_ or "fact" of death? Or is it the person-shaped object left over afterwards?
• Is it YOUR OWN death / dying body / corpse? Or others? (Both can be interesting).
• Is there dominance, demeaning, disrespect in the mix? (That's not core for me).
• What kind of death? Clean (e.g. asphyxia, Sleep Sex) or Brutal / heavy physical trauma?

And do you like the art of SoloGeek as much as I do? (e.g. on DeviantArt).

 

[deaddirty]

 

[Meatpie]

Hi and welcome would love to hear more about your fetishes too!

 

[cmm854]

CM, it makes a lot of sense to me why DEATH is such a psychologically "loaded" idea. (Don't we each somehow believe that God will, of course, make an exception in our own case). My death/necro eros is definitely some kind of attempt to make sense of it all.

(So far) what seems to stir you, CM?
Any interesting questions here? ...

• Is it the _experience_ or "fact" of death? Or is it the person-shaped object left over afterwards?
• Is it YOUR OWN death / dying body / corpse? Or others? (Both can be interesting).
• Is there dominance, demeaning, disrespect in the mix? (That's not core for me).
• What kind of death? Clean (e.g. asphyxia, Sleep Sex) or Brutal / heavy physical trauma?

And do you like the art of SoloGeek as much as I do? (e.g. on DeviantArt).

I'm going to answer all those questions, hopefully to make sense of myself.

*I think it is the experience and fact of death, and I also think (to a certain extent) it is the "person-shaped object" left behind.

*Fresh corpse definitely, and my own death now that I think about it, could be interesting.

*There's definitely a dominance thing to it, though I've always been submissive.

*As to what kind of death, probably clean, and sleep sex sounds interesting. Not heavy on trauma or gore but I like blood.

And I had to make a DeviantArt account so I could go look at SoloGeek's stuff, and yes I found it quite appealing.

Thanks for the questions, they shed a little bit of light on me, which I needed.

 

[cmm854]

Thank you!!

 

[cmm854]

Hi and welcome would love to hear more about your fetishes too!

Thank you, and certainly, always up for talking about them.

 

[Bloomdido Biff]

I'm going to answer all those questions, hopefully to make sense of myself.

*I think it is the experience and fact of death, and I also think (to a certain extent) it is the "person-shaped object" left behind.
*Fresh corpse definitely, and my own death now that I think about it, could be interesting.
*There's definitely a dominance thing to it, though I've always been submissive.
*As to what kind of death, probably clean, and sleep sex sounds interesting. Not heavy on trauma or gore but I like blood.

And I had to make a DeviantArt account so I could go look at SoloGeek's stuff, and yes I found it quite appealing.

Thanks for the questions, they shed a little bit of light on me, which I needed.

Interesting stuff! (Fresh, for me too). I personally don't have this erotic rapport with my S.O ... SLEEPY SEX (partner pretending to be unconscious, or dead) is something to maybe play with -- the ultimate dom/sub experience, for the death eros curious. Might that be fun for you to explore with an intimate partner? Try. (The idea is easier to broach if it's framed as unconscious, rather than fully vacated. That can be kept private, in either role, really).

There's a lot of inspiring art on DeviantArt. Broad, and includes a lot of death eros, but falls short of pornography. No erect penises -- so unfortunate. (Some DeviantArt artists post their fully sexual stuff also on other platforms). So, frankly, very few of my favorite artists there have male victims. I mentioned SoloGeek, in part, because he has some, but still with women, e.g. something I posted on this thread:

• http://cutedeadguys.net/threads/50441-Ambivalent-Fetish-Media-Sex-and-Death-and-Sex

I guess another favorite DeviantArt artist of mine that also has some male subjects is Gallows-Girl-Amy. (I'm a mostly straight cis guy, so there's SO MUCH there that I like, but this is sort of the wrong place for me to get into that more).

CM -- Thanks for being here!

 

[cmm854]

Interesting stuff! (Fresh, for me too). I personally don't have this erotic rapport with my S.O ... SLEEPY SEX (partner pretending to be unconscious, or dead) is something to maybe play with -- the ultimate dom/sub experience, for the death eros curious. Might that be fun for you to explore with an intimate partner? Try. (The idea is easier to broach if it's framed as unconscious, rather than fully vacated. That can be kept private, in either role, really).

There's a lot of inspiring art on DeviantArt. Broad, and includes a lot of death eros, but falls short of pornography. No erect penises -- so unfortunate. (Some DeviantArt artists post their fully sexual stuff also on other platforms). So, frankly, very few of my favorite artists there have male victims. I mentioned SoloGeek, in part, because he has some, but still with women, e.g. something I posted on this thread:

• http://cutedeadguys.net/threads/50441-Ambivalent-Fetish-Media-Sex-and-Death-and-Sex

I guess another favorite DeviantArt artist of mine that also has some male subjects is Gallows-Girl-Amy. (I'm a mostly straight cis guy, so there's SO MUCH there that I like, but this is sort of the wrong place for me to get into that more).

CM -- Thanks for being here!

Would love to try it with my significant other, but somehow don't think that would go over well. Took him a long time to be able to deal with other likings of mine.
I'm definitely going to have to check out the other artist you mentioned as well.
I would love to talk more with you in a private message maybe, lots of other questions and well, you've been the most talkative yet.

Let me know, I seem to find myself on here exploring a lot, so I'm always around.
Thanks again

 

[kitanaprincess]

welcome babe!

nice to know another female here!

you are going to love this place!

 

[cmm854]

welcome babe!

nice to know another female here!

you are going to love this place!

I'm enjoying my self more than I thought I would. Always nice to know there's another girl here
Thank you for the warm welcome!

 

[Bloomdido Biff]

Would love to try it with my significant other, but somehow don't think that would go over well. Took him a long time to be able to deal with other likings of mine.
I'm definitely going to have to check out the other artist you mentioned as well.
I would love to talk more with you in a private message maybe, lots of other questions and well, you've been the most talkative yet.

Let me know, I seem to find myself on here exploring a lot, so I'm always around.
Thanks again

Hi CM! This is a cool place. One interesting observation I have about it is that, since it's not male-predator on female-victim, the fantasy play doesn't seem to get heavy on oppressive misogynistic-like hostility. I do play with that a little, when that's how people are playing. I suspect that, in hetero-dominant snuff/necro fantasy communities, I think straight guys do that simply to _justify_ their fantasy by _devaluing_ the female victim. A recent interesting discussion around whether it's hotter to think that the victim DESERVES what happens to them. Or NOT. I'm solidly in the latter camp. (I'm kind of in awe of my "victim").

 

[cmm854]

Hi CM! This is a cool place. One interesting observation I have about it is that, since it's not male-predator on female-victim, the fantasy play doesn't seem to get heavy on oppressive misogynistic-like hostility. I do play with that a little, when that's how people are playing. I suspect that, in hetero-dominant snuff/necro fantasy communities, I think straight guys do that simply to _justify_ their fantasy by _devaluing_ the female victim. A recent interesting discussion around whether it's hotter to think that the victim DESERVES what happens to them. Or NOT. I'm solidly in the latter camp. (I'm kind of in awe of my "victim").

I noticed that and I completely agree! Which I of course thought was nice, I have never felt not safe here since joining.
Personally I think it's hot just because of the fact of playing with someone, they don't need to "deserve it" in my opinion. But I'm sure there are people that think like that and it's fine, as long as both parties are happy in the end.

 

[Bloomdido Biff]

I noticed that and I completely agree! Which I of course thought was nice, I have never felt not safe here since joining.
Personally I think it's hot just because of the fact of playing with someone, they don't need to "deserve it" in my opinion. But I'm sure there are people that think like that and it's fine, as long as both parties are happy in the end.

Nice! And (but?) I _can_ totally understand "demeaning" play as being exciting because it's working through some deep psychological stuff. (And there's nothing wrong with intending to always enjoy that). Still though, it doesn't feel like the direction I want to be present to. (At least until the U.S. election is done). <g>

I like one pun which comes up for me in your last four words. There's another there which the general membership here would also enjoy.

(Did I say that out loud)?