Hey EIM - welcome to CDG - and thanks for introducing yourself. CDG is a very friendly community - so feel free to make yourself at home here. I am unclear about the comments you make about your home, but if you decide you like it here - many of us have ended up finding good friends.
We also have an excellent Private Message System (PM) where you can communicate privately with others here.
Enjoy CDG and please let us know if you need any assistance.