spikechoke

I see BDSM and dark Eros fantasies as a spiritual path - therefore I seek intelligent and mature-soul people "with a head on their neck". Let's discuss or/and try. Let's play on the edge, but safe. Contradiction? Welcome to my world.

I like various breath control playing scenes, however, I'm not turned on by images of real-life violence, murders and death. On the other hand, I dislike fakes that look too obvious and affected.

Otherwise, my interest range from common bondage & s/m practice, through master/slave(dog) dynamics, to extreme whipping, needleplay and permanent body modifications. My favourites are nipple removal, cock skinning, subincisions, penectomies, castrations and so on...

Of course, all this relates to well-looking guys and men, physical attractions must combine with extreme situation. Besides this, strong mental accent of the situation is a must as well. The real turn on for me is feeling of the willingness to submit and serve, to give oneself to the other, to be provoked to let oneself to be modified (temporarily or permanently). The non-consensual is cool only in the fantasy.

I like contrasts - from plain (young&hairy) to more sophisticated (submission&dominance) and further - like presence of love in rough/violent scenes.

And all the times, I seek for more behind fetish, behind pain, behind scenes, behind fantasies. Secret language of the soul - things suppressed, replaying of mythology, trying to bring stories into life/love/sex.

Besides others... nooseplay, gallows, hanging roleplay, bagging, strangling ... cbt and body mods