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Meatpie
09-04-09, 11:17 AM
Please suggest ways to deal with necrophilia, even for a few days because my obsession is very bad and messed up my life.

As you know I left my job believing I could work in a morgue. I tried but failed so I don't know what I am going to do now...

I can't handle morgue work but I don't have any other job and it is hard to find a decent job with the current economic situation.

Advice, tips, ways to overcome this insane drive to be around dead bodies.

I want to be cured of this shit, maybe dsyn could help me.

I have a feeling I will end up in a bad way if I don't take control soon....I even may end up on the morgue tables of the deiners I met, they will recognize me and discuss my body, feet and cock.

"He was sweet in the face, unfortunately now we have to peel it"

feetboy
09-04-09, 12:39 PM
fill your life with other things? i dunno. I wish i could be cured of this death obsession too.

Darkside
09-04-09, 09:57 PM
I'm shocked,both of my two main heros want cured?, I know i only get my mate to play dead when i fuck him, but for now that is good enough, for years i had nothing and no one, even now i can't tell other friends or family how i feel, but have learned that that is how life is going to be and that i will have to accept it .
I will always hope that one day i will get what i realy want , without hope there is nothing and that is too depresing to even concider.
As for a cure i don't want one, i am what i am and what will be will be, i#ll carry on living my life in probable stupid blind hope and if in the end that's all i have had then thats what fate has had in store for me.
If there is a god, then when i die he had better watch out , coz i want some bloody good answers for making me this way , coz it's not my fault i want to fuck a dead guy.

feetboy
09-04-09, 11:25 PM
i want to fuck you, darkside. i will play dead for you.

tippsking
10-04-09, 01:06 AM
if we are truly meatppie's friends then we need to support him in his decision. we should help him in his goal.

Meatpie
10-04-09, 07:11 AM
I want to be cured but frankly I believe there is no cure.

Only when I die I will be cured and all my problems will be solved. The corpses I saw at the morgue were so peaceful....no problems at all, no need for food to piss or shit.

They also don't need money. Just time to rest and decompose.

tippsking
10-04-09, 07:50 AM
yes buts thata all they do, just lay there doing nothing. wouldn't you rather spend time with your friends and family and feel the warmth of their love then be dead and cause your friends and family great pain!

Meatpie
10-04-09, 07:55 AM
My friends suck and all they do is talk about themsevles and their latest shags.

I find that boring.

But you are right. If I tell my parents I stich up corpses at the morgue they probably won't be very happy.

Toby
10-04-09, 08:48 AM
Darkside, that was beautiful and true! There's nothing I can really add to that.

woyaokan1983
10-04-09, 09:15 AM
well-said, Darkside.
there's no cure for what we are suffering from. ( personally, i don't think i am suffering from it. i enjoy being a gay necro actally, in spite of all the troubles it 's causing me)
i think there's nothing to be ashamed of about being what we are. we like corpses and their feet just like the so called normal guys love women's breasts...

Meatpie
10-04-09, 10:22 AM
personally, i don't think i am suffering from it. i enjoy being a gay necro actally, in spite of all the troubles it 's causing me

The first part of your sentence contradicts the second part.

Anyone who is on this site and says he is not necro is lying, including dsyn.

sober
10-04-09, 03:26 PM
I want to be cured but frankly I believe there is no cure.

Only when I die I will be cured and all my problems will be solved. The corpses I saw at the morgue were so peaceful....no problems at all, no need for food to piss or shit.

They also don't need money. Just time to rest and decompose.

Well, finding real love and having a great relationship might be the only cure I can imagine....a tougher way would be some internship or something in a real morgue ( don't know if this is possible though ), as its not really a nice job, the smell alone is hard to take and watching a corpse on a pic is kinda different from a real corpse - most people can't take that look and smell in real live.

Meatpie
10-04-09, 03:33 PM
How do you know?

I couldn't take it yes.

sober
10-04-09, 11:34 PM
How do you know?

I couldn't take it yes.

Well, there was a doku about people who actually work at a morgue and they said something about thier real work and how much it differers from all these tv shows.

dogfood
11-04-09, 07:16 AM
There is no cure, you're doooomed. It's not a bad thing as long as you don't go out raping real corpses cuz that would be awkward and probably not worth it. :/
Humans are often born with strange instincts and urges, like all animals. Just the way you are.
If there is some kind of amazing medical cure which I highly doubt, it wouldn't be worth the time and money to gamble on. Because today's medical practices are all crap since even shit doctors who do nothing useful still get paid.

Meatpie
11-04-09, 07:53 AM
There is no cure, you're doooomed.

We are all doomed. Question is do we let our sick desire take over our lives or try to surpress it.

I can't find an answer to this.

If you go for what you really want, you might get in akward situations.

If you supress it, you will probably struggle with it for the rest of your life and develop depression.

I absolutely don't know what to do.

Nineteen
10-01-13, 10:36 PM
Hi. Totally late to the conversation. I have had similar trials as you- I left my job as a funeral director because of this. When I began working I thought/hoped that my "little issue" was a phase (I was 17 at the time, all of my friends were experimenting w/ sexual identities,I thought I would get over it). It persisted and I began to feel very guilty for my hypocrisies, dealing compassionately w/ grieving families and then feeling so strongly attracted to their loved one. Hated myself very much for this, abused alcohol/prescriptions etc and contemplated suicide. Because of being hungover/tired from drinking so much, I started taking adderall to keep me awake and help me focus at work and it pretty much eliminated my sex drive because I was so focused on minute details all the time. Those meds helped but obviously the problem hasn't been solved and needs to be solved on a psychological level before I continue to practice as a mortician. Basically my advice is to find meds that have a side effect of reducing your sex drive. That will eliminate the distraction of being horny/ frustrated and hopefully allow you to focus on the main issue...I am also thinking about going into therapy but have not decided if that is a good idea. Maybe something like that would help you?

Waikiki
10-01-13, 11:04 PM
Please suggest ways to deal with necrophilia, even for a few days because my obsession is very bad and messed up my life.

As you know I left my job believing I could work in a morgue. I tried but failesd so I don't know what I am going to do now...

I can't handle morgue work but I don't have any other job and it is hard to find a decent job with the current economic situation.

Advice, tips, ways to overcome this insane drive to be around dead bodies.

I want to be cured of this shit, maybe dsyn could help me.

I have a feeling I will end up in a bad way if I don't take control soon....I even may end up on the morgue tables of the deiners I met, they will recognize me and discuss my body, feet and cock.

"He was sweet in the face, unfortunately now we have to peel it"


To be honest Meat, I think it's the economy and money issues that upset you. Imagine if you had more money than you could ever spend, I think any guy would enjoy his fetishes to the ultimate. So many guys in the world are depressed about their economic situation as the world's economic situation seem to get deeper and no sign yet of a speedy recovery. I think these fetishes we all have (like feet) are an awesome way to make sexual pleasure even more intense. I don't wish I could be "cured" from these fantasies that give me awesome orgasms. I really do think we all have pressures and worries in our lives like money, friends, self esteem, etc, that many of us think are feeling bad because of these fantasies. I think they're a great coping mechanism when you're feeling down and this site gives you sexual pleasure and makes you horny. Money problems make millions of us guys depressed, on top of fetishes that we grew up believing make us "sick", as if every guy didn't have secret thoughts that made him feel weird. For the very few men who have no money or other anxiety I bet this will always be a place to visit when you're feeling horny.

stustustugoo
10-01-13, 11:16 PM
well pie,
you can always cum to the usa and help me spend my parents billions!!!!!!!!! lol

useless bum
11-01-13, 02:27 AM
I was wondering who resurrected this thread. I may sound odd just like I often I am, but I have been wondering if there is any way to turn into something positive. Could this be a case of crocodile tear?

Nineteen
11-01-13, 02:57 AM
I was wondering who resurrected this thread. I may sound odd just like I often I am, but I have been wondering if there is any way to turn into something positive. Could this be a case of crocodile tear?
I am the guilty party. I was reading Fromm and came across this post - having had similar thoughts on the issue I decided to give my opinion. I think it is a perfectly valid question to ask, and one without an easy answer. What do you mean by 'something positive'? Like a solution?

vihrmin
11-01-13, 09:58 AM
We are all "pre-wired" from the factory.
Nothing is "wrong", so nothing can be cured.
Just because most people don't have the inclination does not mean
that it is wrong. Most people are right handed, I'm left, I'm not
wrong, just in the minority. Being gay, the same scenario.
Our CDG outlet is our way to vent, we need it. Who knows,
we might be a step up in evolution.

Waikiki
11-01-13, 10:57 AM
well pie,
you can always cum to the usa and help me spend my parents billions!!!!!!!!! lol

Actually that sounds like the perfect prescription; and when you're not spending lots of money you both get off on feet! Necrophilia is a tough knot, but when I was a kid my fascination with feet and beheadings made me feel "sick" - there are way too many members and regular lurkers and visitors to feel there is something sick about our fetishes, however rare they seem to be. Imagine what is was like before the Internet where every guy thought he was the only sicko that had a noose fetish or that feet turned him on. Before that I hate to imagine what gay guys went through thinking feeling guilty about their thoughts and how they must be the only homosexual in the world.

Maybe I got this wrong, but I think it's the other problems we all have that make some of us want to project our anxiety on necrophilia. When the other problems go away I don't think we'd want the "cure". What's the cure? Missionary position until you shoot?

PiercedChest
11-01-13, 01:47 PM
Nothing is "wrong", so nothing can be cured.
Just because most people don't have the inclination does not mean
that it is wrong.
Our CDG outlet is our way to vent, we need it. Who knows,
we might be a step up in evolution.

:agreed::agreed::agreed::agreed::agreed:

Octave
11-01-13, 02:23 PM
I am proud of this dark sexual inclination. The fact that I am a necrophiliac gives me a singularity the others don't have. And I don't hide myself to my friends ; most of them know that I am a necrophiliac and that I like the Death. I am not physically awful, I don't look like a murderer. I always try to maintain a beautiful look. From this moment, you begin to have a power of fascination. A lot of "normal" people question me about my necro desires. They could not practise these things, but they are fascinated.

My necrophilia is an integral part of me and I decided to assume it with people who don't seem stupid. It's a source of inspiration; in my writing, in the arts, in my contemplation of the existence.

It doesn't have to be a weight. Even if I am sometimes sexually frustrated.

Good luck to everybody. Be who you are.

PiercedChest
11-01-13, 03:02 PM
My necrophilia is an integral part of me and I decided to assume it with people who don't seem stupid. It's a source of inspiration; in my writing, in the arts, in my contemplation of the existence.
Good luck to everybody. Be who you are.

Thank you Octave, your words have comforted and strengthened me.

Meatpie
11-01-13, 03:56 PM
left my job as a funeral director because of this. When I began working I thought/hoped that my "little issue" was a phase I was 17 at the time

Jesus, I understand you.

You were too young. And very brave. And very very necro, severe form of gay necrophila at young age.

This must have been absolutely hard for you. How old are you know?

My first autopsy I was 25 dude run over by truck.

I just stared at the dead dude's empty skull, I loved it and came hard I couldn't feel my cock with excitement.

There is no cure for this.

It gets worse with age and majority of the dudes are never able to have normal relationships.

Nineteen
11-01-13, 05:59 PM
Jesus, I understand you.

You were too young. And very brave. And very very necro, severe form of gay necrophila at young age.

This must have been absolutely hard for you. How old are you

My first autopsy I was 25 dude run over by truck.

I just stared at the dead dude's empty skull, I loved it and came hard I couldn't feel my cock with excitement.

There is no cure for this.

It gets worse with age and majority of the dudes are never able to have normal relationships.

I am a straight woman, 22 yrs old. I am on the verge of leaving my latest long term relationship because I feel like I "need" to go back to work and that would be the only thing that would make me happy; irritating because when I was working, I was just as miserable with guilt and my hypocrisy and lies. My self control is a problem too ex. Taking stupid risks with my health. Once I was raising a mans artery and vein, and took my gloves off and dug up the vessels with my fingers. Very pleasurable at the time but not worth the HiV blood tests I felt the need to get after. And then I did it several times after! Even though I know better! Didn't bother with the blood tests those times. if I die...my own fault and good riddance. Sorry for ranting, thanks for the response. You were young yourself, unusual b/c lots of funeral directors are older at let in my experience. Are you still working in mortuary service? How do you cope/deal with your issue now?

useless bum
14-01-13, 02:42 AM
What do you mean by 'something positive'? Like a solution?

In general sense, yes. If there is a god/god/whatever, there has to be a reason for this. Maybe I need to find the answer why I am this way. You could argue that looking an answer when there isn't is a waste of time. Very true. However, even if there isn't any, if something positive comes out of it, at least I won't feel as gulity as I would.

Lycanthrope
15-01-13, 09:30 AM
My necrophilia sometimes make me want to commit suicide, I would imagine myself in a speedo drowning in the sea or going to the guillotine naked. However every time I jerk off these fantasies disappear, hence my life is a never ending cycle of death fantasies and jerk off.

So pretty much jerking off is my way of coping with necrophilia, I should try meditation one of these days. I hear its good for calming one's mind...

9730857br
18-01-13, 11:23 PM
good

james newman
19-01-13, 05:42 PM
its a challange its going to take time to get over this but you can. think about other things like role play just dont think about it the whole dead issue the obsession will go away in time.

strglroh
20-01-13, 03:44 AM
Embrace it and accept it. Then and only then can you love yourself for something you have no control over.

StrokMcToke
20-10-14, 12:47 AM
I used to contemplate just going postal and start committing heinous crimes for my own pleasure and destroying the lives of others to satisfy my own sexual desires. Now, I am at more of peace with myself since I have much more compassion for people than I seemingly thought. Honestly, though, I am still unsure whether such wants can be suppressed till the day I die.